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All manner of hugging goes on in society in the US. For some people it is unwanted regardless of who the other person is. Autism spectrum comes to mind. How aggressive can person A be against person B to avoid the hug? Here is a recent post:

https://interpersonal.stackexchange.com/questions/9016

What is the basis for legal limits on response? I imagine A is allowed by law to aggress against B only to some proportionate extent. But proportionate in what terms? Of society, in which case A can't pepper spray B when B tries to hug A? The idiosyncrasies of A, in which case pepper spray would be justifiable, in my opinion.

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They can use reasonable force. This is an objective definition: would a reasonable person think that the force was necessary in the circumstances. The fact that the actual person concerned may be paranoid, or autistic, or have suffered harm in the past, or ... is irrelevant.

The public policy reasons for this should be obvious: you are allowed to approach someone in a way that is culturally and situationally appropriate without having to be legally concerned that the particular person concerned may react unreasonably.

  • in the linked post, the people are not acting situationally appropriate and have been previously informed of that. this would seem to allow some level of aggression against them, pepper spray. – Slip Jan 14 '18 at 4:53
  • @Slip the person's knowledge is part of the circumstances that inform the reasonable standard. – Dale M Jan 15 '18 at 22:52

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