As suggested by previous commenters here and on money.se, I hired a lawyer to help with issues with my late brother's estate, so that I could
- sell property we co-owned (joint with right of survivorship)
- try to get all or part of the money that he borrowed from me.
His widow does not intend to open the estate or give me a copy of the will and would not tell me the name of the executor (only that it isn't me and isn't her.)
I hired an attorney recommended by the bar association of the county where my late brother resided. He did get me the name of the executor but did not get me a copy of the will despite saying he would do so. I asked twice.
What he has done instead is request to handle my father's (larger and more complex) estate, with me as executor. My brother was its executor, but he never opened it. I said I wanted to deal with my brother's estate first, but the lawyer has persisted.
Now his secretary is leaving phone messages asking me to fill out the executor forms and charging me $75 (1/4 hour) for every unanswered phone call.
I would like to unhire this lawyer, and would like advice on how to do so.